Menopause Symptoms: A Guide for Women in The Early Stages

Experiencing hot flashes, low libido, or mood swings? Learn how to recognize and manage the most common perimenopause symptoms with tips to support your sexual health and overall well-being.

Menopause is an inevitable part of every woman's life, typically occurring between the ages of 45 and 55. However, the transition begins earlier, during perimenopause, in the period (pun intended!) leading up to menopause. Knowing the symptoms of perimenopause is crucial for women to understanding their experience and being able to advocate for themselves with health care providers.

What Is Perimenopause?

Perimenopause refers to the years leading up to menopause. Menopause is officially marked by the date when a woman has not had a period for 12 consecutive months, and culminates in the end of a woman's reproductive years. During perimenopause, the ovaries gradually produce less estrogen, leading to various physical and emotional changes. Perimenopause can last anywhere from a few months to 10 years, with the average being somewhere in the range of 3 to 5 years, with symptoms varying in intensity and duration among women.

Common Symptoms of Perimenopause

1. Hot Flashes and Night Sweats

Hot flashes are sudden feelings of warmth, often accompanied by sweating and reddening of the skin. Night sweats are hot flashes that occur during sleep and can disrupt rest. These symptoms are among the most commonly reported during perimenopause .

2. Irregular Periods

As hormone levels fluctuate, menstrual cycles may become irregular. Periods may be shorter or longer, heavier or lighter, or skipped entirely. Tracking menstrual patterns can help in understanding individual changes and discussing them with a healthcare provider.

3. Vaginal Dryness and Discomfort

Decreased estrogen levels can lead to vaginal dryness, causing discomfort during sexual activity and increased susceptibility to infections. Over-the-counter lubricants and moisturizers can provide relief, and consulting a healthcare provider for personalized recommendations is advised. Working with a sex therapist who specializes in women’s health can be a game changer.

4. Sleep Disturbances

Difficulty falling asleep or staying asleep is common during perimenopause. Factors such as hot flashes, night sweats, and hormonal changes can contribute to sleep disturbances. Establishing a calming bedtime routine and creating a comfortable sleep environment can be beneficial.

5. Mood Changes

Fluctuating hormone levels can affect mood, leading to irritability, anxiety, or depression. Emotional wellbeing is an essential aspect of overall health during perimenopause, and seeking support from mental health professionals can be helpful.

6. Decreased Libido

Changes in hormone levels, along with physical symptoms like vaginal dryness, can lead to a reduced interest in sexual desire. Open communication with partners and healthcare providers can help address these concerns and explore solutions.

7. Memory and Concentration Issues

Some women experience "brain fog," characterized by forgetfulness and difficulty concentrating. While these symptoms can be frustrating, they are typically temporary and may improve with lifestyle adjustments. Sometimes, this cognitive change is deeply disruptive to a woman’s life. If that’s the case, consultation with a menopause-informed medical provider to explore treatment options is recommended.

8. Physical Changes

Perimenopause can bring about physical changes such as weight gain, especially around the abdomen, and changes in skin elasticity, bone density and muscle mass. Regular physical activity and a balanced diet can help manage these changes.

Managing Perimenopause Symptoms

While perimenopause is an expected part of life, managing the symptoms can help limit the short and long term impacts on your life. Here are some strategies:

  • Healthy Diet: Incorporate a balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins to support overall health.

  • Regular Exercise: Engage in regular physical activity to improve mood, maintain done density and muscle strength, and promote better sleep.

  • Stress Management: Practice relaxation techniques such as yoga, meditation, or deep breathing exercises to manage stress. Work with a counsellor or therapist to build healthy coping strategies.

  • Adequate Sleep: Aim for 7-9 hours of quality sleep each night to support physical and emotional wellbeing.

  • Open Communication: Discuss symptoms with healthcare providers to explore treatment options, including hormone replacement therapy or other medications if appropriate.

When to Seek Professional Help

If perimenopausal symptoms significantly impact daily life or emotional wellbeing, it is important to seek professional help. Healthcare providers specializing in women's health can offer guidance and treatment options tailored to individual needs.

Conclusion

Understanding the symptoms of perimenopause is the first step toward navigating the transition with confidence. By recognizing changes in the body and seeking appropriate support, women can manage symptoms effectively and maintain a healthy, fulfilling life during perimenopause and beyond.

If you're experiencing symptoms of perimenopause and seeking support, consider reaching out to one of our Registered Clinical Counsellors in BC who specialize in women's health, reproductive wellbeing and sexuality.

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Kathryn McInroy

Kathryn specializes in women’s sexual health and wellness, with a focus on sexual pain and dysfunction.

Shauna Burns-Thomson

Shauna is a sex and relationship therapist who advocates for sexual and reproductive wellbeing at every age.

Christina Atkinson

Christina helps women improve sexual self-esteem, resolve sexual health concerns, and increase intimacy and pleasure.

Counselling for Menopause

  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps women in menopause deal with uncomfortable thoughts, emotions, and symptoms without becoming overwhelmed by them. ACT encourages mindfulness, values-driven action, and emotional flexibility. For menopausal clients coping with unpredictability (think night sweats, fatigue, or changing moods!) ACT provides a framework for living a full life, despite discomfort. It’s especially beneficial for addressing anxiety, depression, and existential questions that can arise during midlife transitions.

  • Narrative Therapy helps menopausal clients reframe their personal story, focusing on empowerment and identity through this life transition. As women face changes in their bodies, emotions, and roles, this therapy supports self-expression and reframes menopause from a medical problem to a meaningful life phase. By externalizing issues like hot flashes or low libido, clients gain perspective and agency. Narrative Therapy is especially useful for those dealing with a loss of confidence, body image concerns, or redefining their sense of purpose.

  • Psychoeducational support offers vital menopause education to help women better understand the emotional and physical symptoms they may face. This therapeutic approach focuses on delivering clear, science-backed insights into how hormonal fluctuations affect mood, cognition, and overall mental health. By gaining knowledge about menopause-related changes, such as anxiety, low energy, irritability, and sleep disturbances, clients can feel more empowered and less overwhelmed. Psychoeducational therapy builds confidence, promotes self-awareness, and supports informed decision-making during the menopausal transition.

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